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Driving With No Destination

Driving With No Destination

Driving with no destination. That's what my dashboard told me last week, doing seventy-six on the way to Pilates, a Tuesday like any other. I had a destination. Pilates. Nothing complicated. But I couldn't stop looking at that phrase. Because on the level that matters...

The Hour She Doesn’t Take

The Hour She Doesn’t Take

The house is empty for once. No one needs the bathroom. No one is asking what's for dinner. The dishwasher isn't running, nobody's arguing about the TV, and for the first time all day the only sound in the house is the refrigerator humming to itself in the kitchen....

The Space Between the Bars

The Space Between the Bars

Not long ago, I was on a call with three women I've been working with. I said one word, trapeze, and all three went quiet. Not because it was dramatic. Because it was exactly right. One platform. One bar in your hand. The next platform has its own bar, waiting. To get...

What Closing My Birth Centers Taught Me About Identity

What Closing My Birth Centers Taught Me About Identity

For a long time, I believed my work and my identity were deeply intertwined. Not just connected. Entangled. I wasn’t simply a midwife. I was the founder. The leader. The safe place. The problem solver. The one holding everything together. For years, my birth centers...

You’re Not Burned Out. You’re Outgrowing Your Life.

You’re Not Burned Out. You’re Outgrowing Your Life.

There’s a narrative I see everywhere right now. Women are exhausted. Overwhelmed. Running on empty. And the answer we’re given - over and over again - is: you’re burned out. So we’re told to rest. Take a break. Do less. And while sometimes that’s true… sometimes it’s...

Rebirth Is Not a Moment… It’s a Way of Living

Rebirth Is Not a Moment… It’s a Way of Living

I didn’t plan to name what I was moving through. Like many women, I thought something was wrong with me when my energy dipped. When clarity didn’t come fast enough. When the pace I once maintained suddenly felt unbearable. I assumed I needed to fix it. What I needed...

A Year of Midwifing My Own Rebirth

A Year of Midwifing My Own Rebirth

A year ago, I hit record on the very first episode of The Midwife Life. I didn’t have a strategy, a studio, or a launch plan. I knew that women were craving deeper conversations. Not just about birth or motherhood, but about what it means to remember yourself again...

Midwife Your Life Q&A: Postpartum, Identity & Rebirth

Midwife Your Life Q&A: Postpartum, Identity & Rebirth

When was the last time you felt like yourself? Not just functioning, but truly you. This week on The Midwife Life podcast, I’m answering the questions you submitted: raw, honest, and straight from the heart. From postpartum healing to personal rebirth, this Listener...

Rest → Repair → Rebirth

Rest → Repair → Rebirth

A new rhythm for women in transition Before we dive in, I want to personally invite you to a special gathering Midwifing Your Life: Reconnecting With the Woman You’re Becoming Saturday, November 8 (AZ) Sign up here → themidwifelife.co/rebirth It’s a free, live...